how to deal with neighbors that complain about noise

The light were flickering with the jumping up and down, and the ornaments were shaking. But sadly after 4 months we are back to loud thumping music, banging, screaming, until 3.40am, intimidation and threating behaviour towards me. he would be quiet for a few days then it was the same all over again. Threatens me everytime i see her outside. Hi all and my sympathy to everybody in this situation. We have tried this, but it did not work with these neighbors. Other neighbours have apologised to me as I was left to sort it all out!! I dislike/hate a lot of people but she is at the top of the list, also she was meant to move like 2 years ago!! Hopefully!!! whenever i confronted them , they used foul language and abuse. I now own my own house in a Yorkshire village. Hi sharon i am experiencing the same problem i live in a two bed flat and my neighbour above me is a absolute nightmare all he does is bang around from 8pm – 7am also stomping on the floor and slamming his doors and cupboards it seems to me he doesn’t know how to sit down and also the fact he wakes my 8year old son up i have confronted him which the.police was called out i have contacted enviromental health which sends me diary sheets out and i have filled in atleast 60 in and sent back i have also been in touch with the neighbourhood warden who also gives me diary sheets and i have had a noise teat done and still they carry on i am at the end of my wit now and feel like dont know what to do now is.there any suggestions you could help me with i would be very greatful thankyou from dan. When proof is gotten I think they are threatened with legal action, this can then start meaning fines, and nobody likes a fine! It can cause the entire neighbourhood to be sleep deprived which can cause a lot of health problems. Tell the council it must be dealt with. I hate every dog I see. they scream from 12pm to late 7pm and play in my drivway (throwing footballs and climbing on our cars), i have seen them climb on our fence and try to open our car doors forcefully. or hopefully they have very large!! I have been told to report each incident as soon as it happens. The occupant has been interviewed by housing Assoc., and they have denied it and made ridiculous accusations back. Contact the Environmental Health Authority in your area. Police are a complete waste of time, they are quick to pass it to the Housing. If this is happening, immediate discipline is called for. Still noisy neighbour making plenty of noise! Have you considered dog silencers? Point out to them that you are not doing anything wrong and the noise they are complaining about is just ordinary living. It is quite like my angry emails to the council’s environmental officers, if I look at them as a history, they started off polite and friendly and have become more and more hostile over time. Hi I’m really looking for some help… After two years of noise nuisance from upstairs neighbours I am feeling at the end of my tether.. The council have been useless!!! I ended up having 30 mins sleep before driving an 1 and half hours to work for a full clinic. I’m trying to have a family in a place where the now 45-50 year olds all reside, all “old skool” and are thick as thieves as they are thick as planks. I have kept a diary and today he was up at 5.30 a.m. to watch the Lions game in New Zealand and the bass woke me up. I think we find that once the housing association have got us ‘in’ then they take a step back re. Any comments or suggestions provided by Tessa or any guest bloggers should not, therefore be relied upon as a substitute for legal advice from a qualified lawyer regarding any actual legal issue or dispute. I went through the routine, asked nicely, please be less noisy, her reply was, right, bring it on ! Due to lies by staff they are not taking Tenant to court! We don’t deal with complaints about noise in the street from the general public, except for busking, and equipment like generators. I went round to talk to them and they said they were not being noisy and they told me to fk off. Your best bet is to endure the noise … this time. I’m an animal lover, at least I thought I was, but, honest, I’m seriously considering killing the bloody thing. I’M FROM THE COUNCIL” jumpers and name-tags on, with a clipboard and a pen…and the police around here are all masons, as is my neighbour so nothing gets done due to the Union Jack on his wall as a sign of “I’M ONE OF YOU MORONS! If they can hear this clearly then the problem is almost certainly down to poor sound insulation in the property. Include a description of what the noise is, how long it lasts and how it made you feel. I even managed to stick on camcorder and record some of it, not a great recording but it could be heard. i now totally understand why this happens. You could go some way towards them – as I am sure you don’t really want them hearing everything you do. Moving on, the interesting thing is there is also a consistent pattern to their thuggish behavior. His son is his landlord so there was no use in approaching him as he is an arrogant man who thinks because he owns the flat above that he can do what he likes. 6. The neighbor may not realize that their actions are affecting someone else until it is brought to their attention. These people can’t be reasoned with, police are utterly useless so if you want to reach a solution, do it yourself, if you’re catching my drift…. Take Care, I live in a terraced and the walls are thin, but been here for 12 years and for the most part all has been well. Will need drugs and earplugs unless I get a lucky break and can find a new home. All the neighbours know and are sympathetic but are unwilling or too afraid to get involved. This was why I had to stay, I had no options. Update – Housing Association this time have been a complete waste of time, they have changed their Anti Social Officer, who has failed to investigate fully, took them 3wks to send a letter out to other neighbours and didn’t ask what the Officer told me it would be asking. I want to do the same to the thing and family next door that cow had deliberately made life miserable because she can’t get her own way she’s tried harassment false accusations to the landlord and the council about me she’s dumped her crap over my garden got other neighbours involved through coercion and intimidation this woman is elderly and filled with pus and bile goes to Church says her Hail Mary s then does it all over again a true Christian! Is it a vicious cycle that they just don’t or can’t understand? It really makes your life hell when you can not enjoy your own home. Waste of time the council .. quite obvious how much noise would have been made by the works he had done ..BUT the answer remains .. its during the day .. not outside permitted hours .. so we wont take any action!! Stay calm (as best as you can). Here are some tips to follow when confronting your neighbor with a noise complaint. The police won’t respond at that time because of man power issues. Who does that? How wrong can you be, the new neighbor is in his late 50’s and is a heavy metal fan and lives alone. and lets not even start about the noisy kids and that when they go out in their cars they have to slam every door ! But what ever you do, DON’T be noisy back! We have asked them politely to keep the noises down but every time we do so they get even louder. If you can tape her on your phone or a camera threatening you, do it. I was scared, because he’s quite rough-looking and obviously violent. If they’re quiet then you stay quiet. I hope they help you. It’s 3.30 a.m. Sunday morning and someone is banging and tapping on the ceiling and wall directly below me. However, they will eventually stop. Now waiting for a reply which I feel will either not come or be nasty and unhelpful about it. No one else around here seems to matter because they’re all morons too and are probably in there drinking with him. The police paid me a visit and told me I would be charged if I carried on. Well they do, obviously. Find some inner strength. I love it. I expect they don’t want to pay for it though. my neighbours kids make so much noise everyday (whatever the weather). Hi there,I check your blogs named “Tips on how to deal and dealing with noisy neighbours | Stuart Briggs” daily.Your story-telling style is witty, keep it up! I feel your pain, I live in the city where houses are 15-20 feet apart.Our one neighbor has a family room in the back with a huge tv on the wall that is on side of our house.The people have no structure in there lives.They have nothing but time and are older and not in the best health so all they do is camp out in front of the tv and I get to hear it from inside my house.I dont know why I have to put up with their tv set blaring from 9am to 11pm it is so annoying and an everyday occurance for the past 3 years.Our house is small and I can hear the tv in the whole back half of my house.Its so loud I have to sleep with a box fan year round next to my bed to block out the noise.And unfortunately for me I cannot talk to them I have had them slam the door in my face a couple years ago for complaining about there son killing my grass along our fence on my side with his little spray can.If I said anything to these people they would say they dont care I have been through it before.These people rank as the top worst neighbors I have ever had.When people have nothing but time this makes for the worst neighbors.My only hope is that when they are gone a family with structure replaces them at least if they make noise it wont be sustained for so many hours and there would be down time where it is quiet.I think I am in for the long haul as much as I want this to stop I dont think I have any recourse.The funny thing is the noise ordinance is at 11pm and that is when the volume on the tv goes down so I know the scumbags are aware of what they are doing.I am relying on karma to even things up for me one day. He’s only disabled because he took a stroke with his drinking. Listen to what they have to say. They just like the sound of their own voices! The pity of it all is that a neighbor who was a friend but does not live in our block of flats has now taken sides with those living in the flat above my wife and I because we complained about the excessive noise we were having to put up with from the flat above. I myself have suffered for over 18 months now and things are now happening. Call your appropriate environment agency. The banging and tapping is why I haven’t wanted to go to bed last night. They are a Polish couple with 2 kids, he just smokes weed on the hallway, she doesn’t speak a word of English. I downsized here nearly 3 years ago and the first 5 months were heaven, couldn’t hear my neighbour who is 70, lives alone and very nice. And you can look our website about proxy list. They keep on complaining to our landlord that they can hear us walking around. Why should I keep my window closed whilst trying to sleep when it gets warm .. and have to use ear plugs .. which eventually become painful and dont block the noise out …. I guess that is how karma works. Daytime also a fair bit of drilling, diy and visitors. They left but the new owners bought to rent out, so I am still a nervous wreck in anticipation. I’ve just been through a 6 year nightmare due to former neighbours’ paranoia over ordinary household noises they heard through the party wall. But it doesnt stop there she runs up and downs the stairs over ten times really loud bearing in mind shes like a twig. In order to help them: – Get a notepad She is a director of Landlord Law Services which now hosts Landlord Law and other services for landlords and property professionals. but it worked for me. They never take their kids out, they just play in the house, constant jumping, screaming and running and there is no sound insulation. I know how absolutely awful it can be, as you have a 4 month old see your health visitor about yourself and baby. When I was a kid, we had to move in with our grandparents for a few years, they lived in a high rise block in Salford. I’m stressed with it all, I’ve missed work and also missed the Volunteer Work I’m involved with, my job is suffering through it and I love my job! I will win. Like weightloss,insomnia,stress, inability to attend work or even do badic daily activities. She’s lived next door for a few years now, and we haven’t said anything too her, even after all the weekend parties which would go into the next day, so I get kept awake because of her being so disrespectful to everyone of her neighbours. if only more people had your attitude to defend our homes and those scared neighbours would act too. Put a speakers system facing them…and play it on only when they turn on their music. The police have a duty to deal with threatening behaviour. Certain sounds are inevitable, but there are a few ways to avoid cul-de-sac conflict! 3/ I wholeheartedly disagree with the comment made on combatting noise with noise. he was apologetic and gave me his number to call if it got loud, but when he was drunk hed say fk off, oh well. So, Housing Association have said they have to believe her over me as no other witnesses. © 2006–2021 Tessa Shepperson | Rainmaker Platform | Contact Page | Log in. Choose whether you want to get I told them the walls are thin here and to try and remember that. That’s wonderful news Claire you must had been dancing all over the place when they moved out! So i told her `it`s ok for you lot to be as noisy as you want but i can`t make a sound?` then he came out and asked if i was taking the piss. More incidents in the meantime, and guess what! As a last resort you can call the police at any time but this really will add to the strain that would be arising. I dread coming home! But it isn’t enough for him as he has told me that he loves the bass music or watching dvd’s with out the bass isn’t worth watching. Have had 5 Nuisance Officers in total now and all have different ways of doing the supposedly same job. Have you also considered noise-cancelling wifi earphones for TV/web. The whole situation has made me ill, I have M.E. If I was in prison I wouldn’t have to be a prisoner in my own house anymore, at the whim of a bunch of selfish bastards. Call RSPCA? Neighbour has been told to be quiet – though how long this will last for this is anyone’s guess. I have found this solution near miraculous. DON’T take matters into your own hands, YOU will be the loser. I wrote to them telling them that wasn’t on and giving them a month to sort it out or I would go to court. Do it! A pain I know. Leave nothing to chance. He was a hateful miserable paranoid SOB with video cameras, oil cans leaking, multiple wrecks of vehicles, running exhaust day and night, driving over my front garden with his semi and boat. I've been living in a very loud area of Brooklyn in the same apt for 4 years. Good Luck!! As a result to months of constant drilling and hammering I got tinnitus. In Feb, the flat was let out to a family with a kid and I had been having terrible and continuous noises from their bare foot heavy walking, dropping heavy items to floor and the worst of them all, the child’s jumping, running and screaming ever since. I am a prisoner in my own home as he intimidates me and Ive not sat in the comunual gardens at all this year because of him. Straight behind me, stopping me and asking where I’m going etc etc. Stop being a victim. i moved a year ago after 5 years of really noisy neibours (all night party 20 year old guy one side and a deaf couple the other) . She told the police the same thing. Good Luck!! If they can hear this clearly then the problem is almost certainly down to poor sound insulation in the property. Damn. The council has powers to deal with noise that is considered a statutory nuisance, a statutory nuisance is determined by a number of factors including, but not limited to; type of noise, volume, frequency, duration and its impact on others. Do record everything You can report these incidents to your local safer neighbourhood team. That's a lot of grief for a lot of people. Required fields are marked *. She’s constantly got music blasting all day then all night, she had kids also so she has it on even when they are going to bed, she’s constantly screaming at them too, her voice is like nails on a chalkboard! my folks have had to leave there beds at 8ish dues to the sound of kango hammers drills and loud music to boot.am reading about noise disputes on the web that got out of hand with people being killed . 5. ‘The Law’ (above) hives the best advice. Sigh… I can dream. Note that Tessa is an introducer for Alan Boswell Insurance Brokers and will get a commission from sales made via links on this website. I’ve been back to the housing association and complained again, this time they’ve been slow to deal with it. It’s because your brain is on constant alert, things you once had no problem with whatsoever become a threat on an unconscious level, slowly leach into your consciousness so you become intolerant. the noise would start around 5am when my neighbour got up for work and finished at 10pm when they all went to bed. A second later, as I was walking back upstairs, shaken and upset, his door opened again and he screamed more abuse at me and threatened to ‘rip my fucking eyes out’ if I ever spoke to him again. I play opera really loud. The tenants themselves didn’t have tiny amount of consideration even by wearing slippers or having a rug to reduce the noises for four months I had been complaining, and the impact on my and my family’s daily living and sleep were terribly bad. Since i put my old boom box on the floor in my other room (covered with duvet/pillows to block out noise to flats side & above – but cracked up bass for loud thump) & put Rock on 10 mins after they start, i now find theirs goes down volume within 10 mins of mine – even the ignorant get the message !! http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2186979/Five-best–ear-plugs.html, No one should go through this kind of noise torture. I have spoken to him in a nice way on 7 occasions over the past 2 years and he turns it down to a level that I can put up with for a couple of weeks, then it starts again. And walks with a zimmer, so if I do go down, I have a cripple to beat up, in among a bunch of neds with the “SUNDAY SESH” which is an excuse to drink again after they are elsewhere the Saturday night before…his flat is a last resort for them, as it’s crazy days of the week he does it, and we all work, unlike that useless piece of flesh that the vultures would even turn their noses up at… and I have to suffer for it. Basically covered her own back side when it come to the failings of her team! He is verbally abusive to his wife frequently and physically abusive occasional (once every couple of months). Comes to something when your forced out of your own home and no one gives a shit! Noise - Template Letters. What fantastic news! blokes on either side of them!! Tessa is a specialist landlord & tenant solicitor and the creator of this site! Alcoholic loser of the highest degree. And other issues, let commonsense prevail here. But still they stated they would take Tenant to court. I’m privately renting and my neighbour was a DIY nutter. He just’s responds with verbal abuse to myself and my wife. They failed to speak to neighbours. Now at the stage with a Assistant Director of Housing who really is no use as staff have lied to her! If, after you have written to your neighbours, they continue to keep complaining to you, you could then write another letter saying that you have explained the situation and so far as you are aware you are doing nothing wrong – the noise they are complaining about is normal living. They scream instead of talk, the parents just swear at the children all the time. According to FindLaw, one way to do this is to give your neighbor a copy of the local noise ordinances with the relevant parts underlined or highlighted. He’s actually made me hate good music… Pink Floyd for one, because all I hear is “comfortably numb” (yeah, the one song he plays of them) and Floyd fans will know what I mean in the relation to how brick-walled their bass can be when played with a woofer. The estate agents told me they went round to see them after they had complaints from the other neighbours, i told them they should have sat in my house for a few hours to hear it, they won’t be playing up when someone from the letting agency visits. The police: “are they responding to something you’ve done?” Environmental health: “It will be quicker to sue your freeholder/landlords” . I’ve no problem with the music once my TV in on but when it goes above my TV volume (even after increasing TV volume) to me that’s noisy. You can find out more about our use of 'cookies' on this website here. Just add water and boom,,,more morons to contend with. As you say Housing Officers involved you need their Nuisance Team and not a basic Housing Officer they cannot do anything. If you are already in the situation of having nasty neighbors, here are nine fail-safe strategies: 1. Last year, I took matters in my own hand and kidnapped my idiotic neighbour’s cockerel, then set it free. And even thou the issues with my neighbors is still ongoing he decided yet again to contact the mental health services because of the constant phone calls to the police regarding my neighbors. My downstairs neighbour is an absolute moron, and he’s starting to push my buttons now with his music playing for years now. They have knocked on our door multiple times and also complained to our landlord through many calls and text messages. Police have been involved housing officers been involved shes even phone social services on me even though they took no notice its not the point and shes phoned rspca on us.. Just dont know what to do shes still slamming her doors now and walls its 12.40 at night for god sake. If it continues from after this, they can provide you with a Noise Recording Device, thereby hopefully getting proof. 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Well done you fought for that and won its encouraging to hear, it makes you think its time to stand up and its possible, thanks. I’ve asked the council about there noise nuisance recorder and the possible limitations of the device and the council are not sure whether the device could pick up the sounds at these particular levels. Insist that the Housing do something for you, mither!!!. I am having a noise problem with a new neighbor living in the flat above in a housing association property. Tell them (if t… 8(a) To ensure that all guests and other invitees or licensees of the Tenant while in the Building confirm to the stipulations and regulations contained or referred to in this Schedule Believe it not, you really have NO RIGHTS!

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